Some women are very fund of picking their husbands phone call at his back. Some women most atimes take their husbands phone and begin to search the messages to know if there are some messages sent by another woman or if there is a particular number that do call her husband regularly. This always happen when the man is sleeping or when he is taking his bath in the bathroom.
Some women will even go extra miles to copy the number and begin to call to know if a woman will pick the call. And if it happens that a woman eventually pick the call, they will start to vomit all sorts of evil telling the woman to leave her husband alone, don't you know that he is married?
This act has created a lot of problem to many homes and has also bring an end to some marriages. Picking the call or monitoring your husband's phone to know who called or who sent message to him is rubbish because if the man doesn't want you to see or know all these, he will delete every calls and messages related to that before coming back to the house.
WHAT MY WIFE DID AND THE CONSEQUENCE OF HER ACTION:
My wife is a jealous type, she always search my phone to know if a woman sent me a message or if there is a phone number that repeatedly called me I have been warning her on that but she couldn't hear.
One morning, as I was taking my bath, suddenly my phone rang and she rushed to go and collect the phone, she started calling me telling me that my phone is ringing and I told her that I don't want to pick the call. She asked me why, and said that she knew that it is a woman that is calling me that's why I don't want to pick the call. Now she forcefully picked the call, put it on loud speaker and brought it to me to answer the call which I refused, since the phone is on loud speaker, two of us are hearing the voice of the person calling. It happened to be my elder brother that is calling and he was begging me to send him some money that his only son is in the hospital and the sickness requires that he need blood. When I noticed that I was my elder brother, I collected the phone and told him that I'm going to send him 100k right away.
Meanwhile, my wife begged me just early in the morning to give her some money to join with the one she has to go and buy phone that day and I promised to give her 100k before I leave the house. Now as she heard that I told my brother that I will send him 100k, she begin to ask me which 100k am I intending to send to my brother? I told her that it is the 100k that I promised to give to her to buy phone that since she insisted to pick the call, that is the consequence of it. Had it been she didn't pick the call, it wouldn't have turned to be like that.
Immediately, I send the money to my brother to safe the life of his only son and promise to give her another money anytime I get it. She was now in a state of regret, she will be without phone till I decide otherwise.
Women please learn from this and try to use your precious time to do important things rather than to use it to monitor your husband's phone.
My question is: Is it proper for a woman to pick his husband's phone or to read his messages?
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